I agree too, I would be more than willing to go, however I have a 3 year old with special needs, she can't talk and won't go near anyone but me, even her dad can't understand what she wants :-/ my mum could have possibly coped with her, though that's debatable, but not even an option now as she fell down last week (she's 70) and had to have an operation and now I'm having to care for her too as she is housebound and I have to go there twice a day to give her injections and to see to her needs.
I know people will say that's just excuses, but seriously I can't see how I can just up and leave them with no one :-(
It's ok I'm just having a bad day, like I said dunno why I posted really, nothing anyone can do, just feeling alone with it all.