I agree with all of you on your different points. My family care counsellor just called and said it isn't showing in his file that he has left yet... we shall see. I phoned his parents to let them know and they are angry, but his dad is an A so I'm not really sure he has the right to be angry when he himself has been drunk 6/8 days that my AF has been gone. He will more than likely relapse being there with his dad, but again, not my problem.
Tomorrow is my birthday and I know he wanted to do something special when I visited this Saturday. I won't be in contact if he has left. I will focus on the kids and taking them trick or treating. Plus I have nursing school stuff to worry about.
Anyways, my care counsellor said since he left on good terms (e.g. not being kicked out for breaking the rules) he can come back as soon as they have another bed available, but he has to wait at least 21 days for a new group of men.