Originally Posted by
readerbaby71 
I've realized that no matter what I do I am not capable of detachment in a relationship with someone with so many mental issues. My own issues don't allow me to do that, and it's something I need to work on. Alone. I'm not breaking up with him just because of his actions, but mine also.
I think this is a huge insight readerbaby, I think you've stumbled across an awareness about yourself that will make a tremendous difference in how you define happiness going forward from this point in life. Not saying this type of introspection is
easy, just that going through it & healing it will likely bring you such a greater, healthier sense of peace & happiness afterward. Rootin' for ya!!