Oh Kindeyes, I'm so sorry. Knowing the truth is out doesn't lessen the pain any. Please know that you, and your son, are in my prayers. I'll say a prayer for this girl as well. I can't imagine the self-defeat they must feel once they've faltered. My prayer will be that this is used as a learning experience, and that it reaffirms his recovery MUST come before anything else. Truth be told, you were in my prayers last night. I hadn't seen your footprint here and actually wondered if you were away, or possibly dealing with something bigger. I'm glad to see you back...I wish I could take you to coffee and give you a huge, heartfelt hug.