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Old 01-21-2005, 10:21 AM
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Chuckles101301
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: St. Paul MN
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If you can figure out how to "let him get new glass for the broken items" let me know how you did it. My AH is sober now, but he would break things left and right when he was drunk and it didn't matter to him. It was "our" money that ended up getting spent to replace expensive items no matter who did the fixing. It was usually I who had to replace necessary items because it didn't bother him or he could bug me more by not replacing things. This is a symptom of a much greater problem, I know, but it still bugs me a little....having to explain holes in the wall to guests that asked or fixing it myself? I would usually fix it myself. I still feel bad about it. Resentment I have to let go. I will say that it doesn't take long before breaking "things" isn't enough for him and you need to protect yourself. Don't accept rides from him anymore. Have a plan to get out. Call the cops next time, because it being over for good may be your savior.
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