Hello Eve, In my ADs active addiction they would lie and lie and lie some more. They would also steal, manipulate and deceive me. They would make the world seem like how they wanted me to see it. And I took the bait many times. I occasionally still do take the bait if their AV appears out of no where. Be strong, you heard what you heard. Don't be overwhelmed by some smarta$$ AV telling you what you didn't hear, to worry is to give in. Gentle hugs, TF