Ellima - We have all seen that behavior (in one way or another) way too many times. You know, he'll probably act like Mr. Nice guy and somehow turn it around that YOU did something wrong.
Whatever happens, take care of you - remove yourself from his behavior, if only for the night. Let things cool down a bit, do something for yourself.
I'm proud of you for putting him out of the car. That is something I have never been able to do because then I start feeling bad - AWESOME!!