Old 10-25-2013, 11:34 AM
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sobrsstr
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Sister is at it again with the hate messages

My alcoholic sister who lives in another state seems to be out of control again. She is drunk in the mornings as well as evenings. I have told her I will not talk to her when she is drunk and reiterate this when she calls me drunk. In response she has been filling my voice mail up with hate messages. She left me 10 messages the other night and several today. The content is how much she hates me, mocks my life, work, husband, and tells me my children are brats (one is a baby), and blames me for her alienation from her adult daughter.

I know I shouldn't listen to the messages, because they make me feel horrible for days, but I can't stop myself.

I just don't know what else to do.

I have thought about Al Anon, but with a baby, and a preschooler it really isn't feasible, other than doing something online.
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