"Our teens are being affected because he will drive them while intoxicated"
My kids know not to get in the car with hubby. They are teens, so I just explained it is really hard to tell when he is drinking and when he isn't- so wait for me for the rides. Emergency, call grandma, either of my two best friends, or my brother. I told them to blame it on me if he asks "Sorry, can't. Mom won't let me." It has been two years and he has never pushed it. He doesn't even ask anymore. He did say something to me once and I told him it wasn't personal. I just ca't trust him to not be drinking.