Originally Posted by
smtowngirl 
If I need help getting him out of the house I can call my Dad and step dad ( both RA ). They would be there in a minute.
I'm so glad you have support, especially from people who can understand the possible volatility of the situation. Can you let them know ahead of time of the plan? Maybe they can drop in and make sure things go smoothly.
How about planning a play date out for your boys, so they miss any possible scene - maybe even a sleepover, so you can decompress and collect yourself after he's gone? You probably thought of that already.
I am sending you strength and courage.