Every time I needed to go to a social function I would drink to cope. However, I think this is more "normal" than you think. The problem for me became where I couldn't go without a drink. If there was no alcohol I wouldn't go to the social event due to anxiety.
I bet you are like many of us, a sensitive soul. I personally see social events as a giant judgment fest. Therefore if I don't go, no one can judge me
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