Thank You to all who replied
Thank you all for responding to my post regarding my 22 year old son. You have all given me some great ideas and some comfort knowing I'm not alone in this fight against substance abuse. I made my son tell his stepdad what he did (Ileft them alone so they could talk). My son said they still had more to talk about but said it went well. My husband on the other hand, agreed the talk is not finished but said what he got out of it was basically summed up as "I'm sorry I got caught".
I still think the contract is something I need to do and like many of you have said...I must be prepared to follow through with the consequences and in this case will be to make him leave my home.