My AH is not nearly as subtle as using a seductive tone of voice. After bugging the crap out of me for money and then going out until the wee hours of the morning, coming home drunk and high, he usually wakes me up out of a sound sleep and says "wanna have sex?" Gee, I really feel in the mood then, I tell ya! I then have to make sure in the morning that the browsing history in the computer is cleared of all porn sites before the kids use the computer.