Originally Posted by
Lyssy 
((((hugs))))
I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I am not sure I will ever trust again (myself or others). Pretty sad.
Oh, and the amorous/seductive tone - don't have any experience with that. It was full blown rage and anger in my case.
On seduction & flattery: boy-howdy, do I fall for that. Yup. (Funny though, when "you are the love of my life" is said nearly incoherently in the middle of a 2 week bender, it starts to lose it's appeal. Even to me. *sigh*)
I go back and forth, trusting myself, and then crumbling. But it is still early in my recovery. So I am trying to be gentle with myself. I hope you can be too, lyssy and lettingonow! We deserve it.