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Anna I'm sorry for the abuse you went through.
I think the key is what you said, it's destroying you, not your sister. So, make a conscious choice to let go of the feelings you have toward your sister. I don't mean you should accept what she did, not at all. But, the negative feelings are holding you hostage and you won't be free until you let them go.
I understand..but I don't know how to let it go...I don't feel like I have the tools...its like a flesh eating disease..but it eats at who I am..