my boyfriend hasn't had like...a single real emotion for over two months. You really should give it more time. Don't worry, about what's going on cuz right now he's not himself and honestly wont be for a long time. I think i've talked to you before. Anyways, like i said it's so hard and you just gotta calm down youll destroy yourself with worry if you do that to yourself. He is going to find out who he is with this program on his own not based on anybody else's efforts. If he truly loves you, which i'm sure he does... things will be fine but remember how much longer you have to go. this isn't him just getting clean this is him finding himself again.