Originally Posted by
thislonelygirl 
how do you expect to get any peace from someone who doesn't think they cause chaos? how do you get affection from someone who lacks the skill to give affection appropriately? how do you re train a child when that child is an adult? how do you live in a mental hospital day in and out and wonder how you got so sick?.....
Oh I thought about the same thing today, how it seems that one is dealing with a child who just won't take any responsibility.
Expecting peace from chaos does not make any sense. I expect partners to be absent and I have been very smart choosing partners because MOST of them have been absent one way or the other.
If one wants to train something then he or she needs to get a dog.. .human beings are who they are... that is a Louise Hay phrase "others are free to be themselves.. and I am free to be me"
I am free to be me and being me involves being able to share what I feel and being respected/listened to... I do not need ANY bully in my life... no matter what the "excuse" is.