Originally Posted by
trixie56 
"You can't have a healthy relationship with an unhealthy person!"
My experience with my XABF has taught me this the hard way...When he was "dry," he was often rude and manipulative, and I'd brush it off as me being 'too sensitive.'
In my history of abusive relationships-sheesh- I have realized they love to use that "you are too sensitive" or the last one I got "what, now I can't joke?"
NO, YOU ARE NOT BEING TOO SENSITIVE, ANY HUMAN BEING would feel exactly the same way. No decent person that I have met has ever felt the need to say that kind of phrases, all it is is gaslighting.
To quote LTD: "Unacceptable behavior is unacceptable".