Originally Posted by
alphaomega 
It reminds me of a verbally abusive ex boyfriend I had in college. I did everything I could to please that jerk, and he just toyed with me and used me. I could not see it when I was in it. Blind. Completely blind. Like he was doing me a favor.
I kicked that jack wagon to the curb and never looked back. I'm not sure when I had the "ah ha" moment or even why I had it. The obsession was unrelenting.
And then, just like that, it was gone.
And he tried and tried and tried to come back. By that point I was thinking, dude, I'd have to be nuts to let you back into my life. I hate you. You are awful. The devil incarnate. I was DONE.
Waiting for that to happen with this nonsense. I'm so over it.
But I'm not.
Hell yeah it is a lot like that. You escaped that abusive relationship and you will escape this one as well. If he says he just wants to come over and "talk" it's a trap AO. winkwink. If you had stayed with him where would you be? If you stay with your addiction now where will you be?
Far be it from me to condone country music but:
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