I am so sorry you are going through this. My heart breaks for you and your daughter. It sounds like you are doing all the right things by not allowing him to manipulate you and make you feel guilty for something you have no control nor cause for. You are making your daughter your number 1 priority but make sure you take of yourself too. I cannot imagine any court allowing him alone time while on drugs no matter what he says. If he gets out of control you may need to get a court order like Ann says and possibly a restraining order if it gets too bad which I hope it does not. I am always praying for everyone here. Gentle hugs.