Originally Posted by
Needingadvice1 
Thks again. I live in a very remote area and a 2.5hr flight from any family. I'm really isolated which makes things a little harder. He knows i have Nowhere to go & will bd here when he decides to come home. I've spent all day trying to detach from him. Cut off thinking when I wonder where he is & what he is doing.
Jjj111 - I don't know why I don't get a restraining order. It seems simple right. I guess that's the reason I'm back to this site. I think I'm just messed up.
IMO, telling your Mom or getting a restraining order makes it all too REAL and right now, your reality is just too painful. At least, that is my struggle or has been.
You're in my prayers. Nothing about being in love with an addict is easy.