no surprise
I have missed a few Alanon meetings because my little girl has the flu and
wanted to share.
These last months my ex has been great with our daughter (3 1/2), mind
you he never is alone with her but he meets us at the playground,for dinner
at the restaurant or some other place preferably not my place or his. And
we never get in his car and he never drives ours.
He had gotten detoxed and was using again but only a little and morphine
instead of Heroin.
I pretty much knew it would be short lived but I figured "if he wants to see
his daughter and is acting better than ever it's still good for her".
He called me this week and I just know he is using more.
And he is being kind of nuts.
He accuses me of having met someone else a year ago.
Says he wants alone time with our daughter. (when I said that it couldn't happen because of the drugs he said stuff like "there are a lot of people out there who take all kinds of meds I am not any worse than they are and they are still allowed to see their kids.)
He said he was going to insist on alone time with his daughter??? It's his right.
I think that might mean not willingly give me any money unless I go to
court.
I told him he could get some agency to supervise visits if he wanted to see her away from me. He was angry. He made all kind of accusations about me doing him wrong. (And his tone throughout was very disrespectful).
Then of course he asked me to come to his house for Thanksgiving and cook the turkey....Yeah after being mean for like 30 minutes... Sure I like it when you are mean to me!
I missed his calls yesterday. I have no idea how my phone got on silent mode but I am thankful it did.
I called him today he is ****** up. He said he took some sleeping pills.
He was slurring.
I knew this was coming. Even when we had great days at the park, the fair or the restaurant. It still hurts.
I am so glad my daughter has no idea that we were supposed to see her dad.
Neither of us slept much these last few night...I guess we'll rest at home.