Originally Posted by
marie1960 
I agree with Anvil, he currently is not 100% committed.
If I were in your shoes, I would be forming/making a Plan B.
Thinking a plan B would offer you some security and comfort during these troubled times.
I really can appreciate your commitment to your marriage, but we cannot force someone to stay married to us.
Don't really need a plan B. The house is mine, purchased with my money long before he and I got married. The kids are mine, their dad bailed years ago. I earn way more money than he does, I have a lucrative career. He would just have to leave, end of story.