Bless you! I so get your post about going coo coo. Before I walked out I really thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown. What did make me leave was his behaviour caused my Lupus to flare, this is the worse flare I have ever had since diagnosed 15 years ago. And that was it for me I just knew I had to save myself. I can't tell you what to do, but what I do know is that their behaviour can be really damaging to ones health. And the sad thing is that if you do become ill they won't be there to help you.