Yes, sometimes posts get lost, sometimes you have nothing to respond to on them. Your post regarding your neice & NYE seemed to be a vent rather than a quandry. You decided your neice was not spending the night and you stuck with it despite the dramas of trying to manipulate you. You made arrangements for your children since you had to work and couldn't count on your A. Yeah your kids think you're a mean mom... but hey you're a mom & it goes with the job. You had solved your problems/issues. NYD & NYE are BIG issue days for A's & those around them.