Shoes, yeah - I know exactly what you mean. I got tripped up by that after many years sober -- a couple of times. I'd have thought I would have learned after two go-arounds. I may try what I did when I quit smoking; I told myself that if I ever found I had a terminal disease, I could start smoking again. But after being off cigarettes for about 15-20 years, I realized I never want to go back. So I may try that here, too.