Good to hear from you! My initial thought is the same as others...he's afraid of what the news may be and needed to downplay his need to be there. He just doesn't have the emotional maturity for this stuff, you already know that. Try not to take it personally, it's his problem. Sounds like he has tried to help out in some fashion, which you needed.
Good Luck tomorrow! As you sit in that Dr's office, visualize all of us sitting there with you in spirit.
