Dear KIR, I agree totally with Gunther. Don't let yourself be forced into or overwhelmed by your addicted loved one. You made a decision. Lets see what happens. What he will do. If he stays sober, he crossed over to sobriety if he decides to use again, well, maybe he wasn't serious to begin with. Don't play that blame game, guilt trips or give in to the threats. Do what your gut tells you. Good luck, be strong and take care of yourself. Gentle but firm hugs to you. Support will become your best friend...TF