Originally Posted by
SomewhereElse 
My question is this: which meetings help you more, AA or Alanon?
IMHO, the right answer is whatever meeting you feel you need at the time.
Originally Posted by
SomewhereElse So what do you get out of each meeting?
From AA I get the life on life's terms perspective from that of my alcoholism.
From Alanon, I get the life on life's terms from the codependent recovery perspective.
Same 12 steps, different perspectives.....
Best of everything to you......