Originally Posted by
Freebird13 
Did you tell your hubby how hard it is for you to NOT drink when you can hear him chilling bottles? I mean, seriously! Has he no consideration whatsoever?
It has been said, that it is very hard fo rme to try to be sober if he drinks beer and it is around all the time. I do not think he can easily stop, just like me. But that is his battle to have, not mine. I do have to live with it if I want to continue raising our children together. And I do.
My history and ours together, is not one of drama and fighting, over this. We enable each other and were happy drinkers together. I got health problems, and got tired of hangovers and wasting time on it all. Trying to live a sober life. But there was no drama between us over it. And I think he drinks too much, and cannot easily just stop for me, like a person who is a "normal social drinker."