I think ShootingStar made some excellent points- this does go far beyond the issue of tools.
But, about the tools, pawn shops are another excellent place to find used tools for a good price.
Although my bf lets me use the tools, I feel your frustration about AH not doing the stuff around the house he says he will. Recently, bf told me he'd fix some things on my car, but didn't bother. So, I took it to the shop and of course when bf found out he was none too pleased. But you know what? I don't care. My car is fixed!!