Yeah.
Their crap can make *us* crazy.
Funny how that works, huh?
You need to get out of his crap.
You know why it is called "his" crap, right?
Because it is HIS crap. Not your crap.
But gotta tell you sister, sounds like you have plenty of crap of your own -- at least right now.
You know where the crapper is? Where you can start getting rid of some of your crap? Have a pretty good one at Alanon from what I have seen.