Makes sense that he's upset, since he is in denial about his disease. But as has already been mentioned, Alanon is for YOU...not him. So while he is allowed to have his opinion or reaction, it doesn't need to deter your focus in getting healthy. Just like he has the right to keep drinking, you have the right to take care of you.
Detach Detach Detach. He's going to quack, let him. You can make the decision to not react. I would suggest you don't back away from the meetings, he will get the message that quacking works to control you.
Hang in there....
