Originally Posted by
jacrazz 
Normies don't wish and hope for things like getting a DUI, getting the car repossessed, going to jail, getting fired because maybe it will be their wake up call. Then when one or more said things do actually happen, it has no effect!
I hoped for all those things to happen to my husband so he could finally hit his bottom. Everyone one of those things happened to him in a short period of time and it has not made any difference. He still drinks everyday and has an excuse why all these events were not his fault and not proof that he is an alcoholic.