Littlefish is right. My husband and I were out to eat last night in a bar/restaurant and I consciously looked around at the different tables to see what people were drinking. More tables were drinking tea/sodas, etc. than those drinking alcohol. When you are a drinker, you assume everyone and their grandmother is imbibing right along with you, but it just isn't true. I remember reading an alcoholic's memoir and she talks about being shocked that people could and often do leave half full glasses at the table. That was a A-Ha moment for me, too. The thought of leaving any alcohol in my glass, never occurred to me.