Originally Posted by
Toomutch 
Surrendering the car means giving it back to the bank because I owe on it more than it's worth. My boyfriend bought a Nissan Xterra yesterday that I will be driving. Of course it's in his name, I have nothing of my own anymore.
That sucks.... I have been in that situation and it is not good for a relationship. Your sobriety needs to be your first priority right now but, can I just ask why didn't he make your car payment without the drama if that is what he agreed on? Being used? I mean come on....
I am the queen of dysfunctional relationships. IMO be careful with this one