hey undone,
he asked if you would go, you said of course. he then got the ball rolling by making an actual appointment.
is he mean ,insensitive or odd enough to deliberately make the appointment on your anniversary?
he likely got offered a time slot and grabbed what was available.
telling you he wants couples therapy and asking if you'll go with him and then making the appointment....to me, it sounds like a guy who wants things to work out and is doing what he can to make that happen.
he's putting the effort in.
he didn't do it perfectly.
why is that not okay?