If my motives are honest and entrenched in my sincerity of a loving purpose in my love for others, then how those others accept me is also freely allowed to be whatever it is without consequence for me.
At the end of the day, there is no wrongness in my hope that my expectations of myself are best kept to myself. In the case that someone I love has some insight into my internal workings that I am unaware of them having respective to themselves is not an indication that a problem with honesty has been created for either party.
For me anyways.
