Originally Posted by
ZenMe 
So as I'm reading a thought enters into my head "oh my xagf was codependent in her marriage to an alcoholic, she left when the abuse got physical"...then another thought pops into my head "what if I mail her codependent no more with a letter?"
Of course I am not doing this. Anyone else have these kind of fantasies? I've maybe thought of this scenario like 3 times.
On another note do any of you get this bolt of electric happiness when you think "I get a second change at a real, healthy, fulfilling relationship!". *****o!
I get that bolt of energy you are talking about, then I slap myself and say, "hey, you are today in this mess because of your little romantic daydreaming and your princes on white horses. Don't even think about it!"