I am going through the exact same issue. I am 53 days sober after 25 years of daily drinking. The last 19 years drinking with my wife.
She still drinks daily and gets drunk several nights a week. I try not to judge her but it is tough. Part of me is jealous that she is still "having fun" but I know that it's not worth it - I want and need sobriety.
My sobriety and her drinking is causing friction in our marriage. Guess I will see how it plays out.