Only when you truly surrender...
Dear friends... I read all your pain. The only hope is to truly surrender and believe in your Higher Power - for me that's Christ. And believe that the universe has aligned everything perfectly. For those of you with hard choices - with children - do EVERYTHING to protect your children. No child should be exposed to addiction. Addiction - even subtle - exposes children to abuse. It is up to us - as parents to protect our children. It is NOT about US when children are involved - no matter how much you love your addicted spouse / boyfriend / girlfriend / fiance....
And for those of you without children - you have a choice- you can chose to stay and give up on most of your life - and your dreams - BUT CHOSE LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND TRUST GOD