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Old 09-16-2013, 08:35 PM
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Plenny
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Hey all! I worked today and I can't stay online a lot when I'm there.
Thanks everyone for your kind words about my "friend" situation.
To all of you with husband or SO issues, I totally hear you. Sometimes my husband's behavior makes me want to drink bottles of wine. He's self centered and bratty sometimes. He's insensitive and pessimistic. It's terrible. Ha! But I'm just empathizing here, I'm not currently going through that for the moment.
I'm interested in this Codependency book. I'll have to order it. I guess I'm not sure I even know what codependency really is, by definition. I should educate myself. Since it seems to keep popping up.
My DF texted me again this morning (my block on her number didn't work! Don't know why). She said she was sorry to be so abrupt but she just needs space. So now she's gone from "Our friendship is over, goodbye," to "I just don't think we can be friends right now," to "Leave me alone to work it out," to "I'm sorry but I'm hurt too," to "I'm trying to contact you," to "We need to talk I want to talk," to "I'm sorry I was abrupt I need space." All the while I responded with confusion and concern, finally telling her I didn't want to talk to her ever again. As you all know.
So, I did something I've been meaning to do for a long time. I drafted a letter to her sister, who lives here. I intend to send it tomorrow. It's a letter of concern I've wanted to send for over a year. It's the last thing I'll do for her. Then I wash my hands.
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