Originally Posted by
honeypig 
Here's a link that explains a bit more about what "amends" really means:
Making amends is more than an apology -- Hazelden
It's way more than an apology, or at least it should be, in my understanding.
Hope the link helps clarify the work that should be going into preparing for and then making amends.
Well I got "I need to make amends to you, I am sorry for being drunk all the time and trying to make you have sex all the time when I was drunk"
Whole thing was less than 2 minutes. I simply said "Thank you". It was more than I expected. I dont have any experience with this. Figure it was more for him than about me.
Thanks for the link. Much appreciated.