Originally Posted by
wysiwyg 
Normies don't know what it's like to think that the only way their partner will learn is if the worst case scenario actually plays out. And normies certainly don't know what it's like to witness that worst case scenario happen, and it never actually registers with their partner that it was the result of his/her actions. But he/she plays the victim role like a champ!
I know exactly what you mean. There were so many times with my husband when I thought once this awful thing happens he will finally see the light. But he never saw it as consequences of his behavior. They are experts at twisting things around and making themselves into the victim.