Thanks, AllieB. The 24 hr shifts shake me up, for sure. I didn't have childcare to help out that day, either, so I didn't get to play much sleep catch-up, and I was feeling pretty beasty. I took a nap with my son today and am slowly feeling back to normal (whatever that means!).
It's easier in the short term to get loaded and glare resentfully at the back of my husband's head than have a discussion about... stuff. But it is very literally drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.