I'm still in NC with XAGF. Last time I saw them at a house concert with my X I was of course cordial. They bottled up so no doubt she told them something...
They live about 30 minutes away, so I don't really run into them. I run into them more when she brings them to town for an event such as this.
I might go canyoneering the day of that event so I may not see them. My boundary is, once she's sober for a year we can be friends or something.