XAGF's kids - What to do if anything?
So I have been doing FOO work and I realize how negatively my childhood has affected my life.
Quick recap: my XAGF has 2 boys, 7 and 9. Similar to me and my brother. I'm not looking to get involved in her life. We have friends in common and looks like she is taking them to a sloshball / chilli cookoff event. Basically a bunch of adults playing kickball and getting wasted. She is going to keep them in an adjacent fenced off playground so they aren't near the drinking...
Anyhow, she has a new bf blah blah. Is there anything I can do for these kids? I'm not looking to reconnect with my X. Just wondering if there's something i should do. They have a dad who is also an alcoholic, she used to always complain he wasn't stepping up as a dad, she won't admit it but she looks for a dad/family replacement in a man.
Thoughts? Thanks!