Thanks, Honeypig. Even when sober, it doesn't occur to him to call or text and let me know what's going on. It's an issue and he knows that, so he's been getting better about it. Last night he was very apologetic and we went over it again. I told him I can't handle the anxiety and that it's going to take me a long, long time to trust him.
Ahhhh, what a process. Some days it seems worth it, others not so much. Just gotta keep plugging along. Have a good day!