For me it was the same, soo many things in common, insane physical attraction, best laughs, most wonderful times I have had ever, like 10 honeymoons in one. However the flip side of all that is real abuse, not being a priority (since alcohol and their selfish ways are more important), us not taking care of ourselves and all that.
It's really fun at first, but not sustainable. Once you take the rose colored glasses of it all collapses and erodes you even further. Get out while you can!