when my husband (way before we met) checked himself into rehab, got assigned to his room, getting settled and his "roommate" comes in, close the door, pulls a chair over, lifts one of the ceiling tiles and pulls down dope and a syringe, saying thank god I got the same room again!!!
addicts will go to ANY lengths in their pursuit.
what's kind of sad is that while you thought you were having such an "amazing" weekend, he was glad to be home cuz he knew EXACTLY where the drugs and the rig were. he's shooting up in the next room and you didn't have a clue. you didn't notice that he acted or behaved any differently.
if nothing else, perhaps this latest event in a long series of events, helps you keep your eyes open and resist trying to get things back to normal and amazing quite so soon. no more weekend visits. was that HIS idea or yours?
that he still wants to make you complicit in keeping secrets from his family reveals that he isn't really wanting to face this all down, take his lumps and move forward. be cautious. stay aware.